Ahh Thanksgiving. It’s the week of the humble brag. . It’s a perfect for people who want others to know about their accomplishments, but have a hard time working it into general conversation. For example:

• I am just so thankful that we got such a great deal on our new car!
• I am so thankful that we have such a great builder working on our new house.
• I am so fortunate that God has blessed me with the means to give so generously to others!

Ugh. It’s been hard for me to read things like that lately. Mostly because it is my problem. I have been having a hard time with comparing myself to others. I’m not really sure when it started creeping in, but it did. Suddenly, I found myself comparing houses, looks, social lives, etc., etc.

Here’s the funny thing – I am really happy with my life. My husband, my daughter, my job, my relationships… but that rationale isn’t factored in when comparing rears its ugly head.

I’ll take my cue from  Ephesians 4:2: “Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love.” I can’t control what others say, but I can control how I react to it. I know I need to grow in humbleness and gentleness, but I especially need to grow in patience. Even if someone is bragging, I need to get over it because I know I have been there.

This Thanksgiving, I will work to show love instead of an eye roll. I think that will make everyone more thankful.