It’s always good to know who your friends are. Who they really are. Really knowing people – what they think, what they struggle with, what they really love – is crucial in knowing what is at their core.
Our pastor gave a great message about this last night too. He gave us some good reminders about how to live well. Strategically.
One of the ways Rafa and I live strategically is by surrounding ourselves with people who affirm and help us grow stronger in our marriage. This is more important than just having common conversation topics or easy dinner topics.
One of my favorite blogs, Young Married Life, recently published a post about how divorce can be contagious in some circles.
When the acceptance of divorce increases among your friends, be very careful. It probably means your accptance of divorce in increasing too. If you’re surrounded by people who aren’t encouraging you to fight for your vows, but filling your head with empty phrases like “You can do better,” or “You deserve to be happy,” take a hard look at the company you keep.
Your marriage depends on it.